losing a sister(kinda)

paintsnow · 11-01-2006, 08:41 PM

here the story(no one died)
im 15 and ive know a girl for most of my life (since preschool)
i havent seen her since but weve kept close contact
i love her as a sister and she knows that
latly she hasnt been talking to me or responding to my emails
but tonight i talked to her bf
shes trying to forget about pretty much the first half of her life when she lived in LA because her father and grandfather died
i know thats impossible and think shes wasting her time although i understand why she would want to
anyways tonight her bf whom i like from whan i heard about him and our convo told me she was over me and had moved on
and told me to try to forget her too and move on with my life
anyways i just told him that if for some reason he hurt her i would drive my *** all 600+ miles to where they live and kick his ***
i dont know what the purpose of this really is but i guess i just needed to rant and am hoping for advice
thank you guys

AgTitan06 · 11-01-2006, 08:50 PM

sounds like you and pi3yeargrad should become friends.

paintsnow · 11-01-2006, 09:00 PM

yeah i read that thread but me and my girl are still doing good ( 2months tomorrow) but i cant even begin to imagine what i would do if she left
and really shouldnt at the moment

baseballfanz · 11-01-2006, 09:13 PM

If that's what she think she want give her time, not sure if this fool is putting things in her head or not but not much you can do. The more you press her the farther she might go away from you. If she's ready one day she'll tell you why, if not life goes on and know it's not your doing. Just be there for her still if she should need you. Goodluck.

paintsnow · 11-01-2006, 09:29 PM

i havent really been pressing her and yeah i though he might be too i mean he says he loves her and **** but i dont know maybe he thinks im competition
but i would drive up there and take my chances with him if he ever hurt her in anyway
btw im short and not all that strong and i know he has a few inches on me and a lot more muscleXD
but i guess that only proves that i feel like a bro towards her

paintsnow · 11-01-2006, 09:47 PM

gah its so hard though cause i love her soo much and i honestly and genuinely feel as if she is my sister
i cant let her go because that would just be stupid
i need to hold on to what i got which isnt much...not even a titan..YET
i think i just lost another friend(guy) because i tryed to help him out with something
funny how i always lose people when im trying to be helpful or nice
guess i just have really bad luck
oh and with my GF last night i told her i loved her after 2 months of dating
and she just sorta said
aww that sweet but i dont know what to say i mean im not really sure myself...
so that kinda hurt although i can understand the fact that she isnt sure but still...

DRTYAZN · 11-01-2006, 10:55 PM

hhhhmmmm... sounds like you need to make that drive, meet with her (AND ONLY HER), and have a face to face, heart to heart talk about where you both stand in this, before you lose your senses about this whole thing...

AgTitan06 · 11-01-2006, 10:57 PM

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Originally Posted by DRTYAZN

hhhhmmmm... sounds like you need to make that drive, meet with her (AND ONLY HER), and have a face to face, heart to heart talk about where you both stand in this, before you lose your senses about this whole thing...

no no no...that will just make things worse...

paintsnow · 11-01-2006, 11:17 PM

dude im 15 dont have a car or license my close friend (who can drive) is pissed at me because i offered him a sugestion on what to do so he doenst get friends mad at him (one told me she was kinda ticked cause he never has time for all his frineds and doesnt say hi sometimes when we all meet after school
hes a freshman in college btw
my mom pretty much hates me right now i have a **** load of hw mother doesnt understand anything and thinks i should only be intrested in school and i told my gf i loved her last night after 2 months and she just kinda said um ok well im not sure...sorry
anybody know the number to the suicde hotline? or you could just give me ideas
jk
but if i wasnt persistent im pretty sure i would be considering it or have done it by now
but no worries i know there is too much to lose by doing it an i would not be able to put my friends through the pain of it
anyways if somebody wants to kidnap me and drive me 600 mile to santa rosa california go ahead i live in vegas btw
but all i can offer is 29 bucks...
didnt think anyone would take meXD
well back to hw
advise is extreamly appreciated

paintsnow · 11-01-2006, 11:19 PM

sorry i just oticed i repeted myself
stressed much?
yes

pi3yeargrad · 11-02-2006, 12:18 AM

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Originally Posted by AgTitan06

sounds like you and pi3yeargrad should become friends.

haha...I wasnt even gonna look in this thread but it called my name somehow...

not laughing at ur situation but at what agtitan said...

sorry to hear bro...I dont know what to tell u though...ur young and I guess...well shoot, who am I to talk or say anything...