Karl,
We actually moved 'up here' just over a year ago. Sold a condo in San Diego (Santee specifically) that went for more than the 4Br, 3Ba home we are in now! LOL
Temecula has kinda exploded house price wise, hence thats why we chose Hemet. It's also a little quieter up here with all the retiree's and Snowbirds.
I don't think we are quite as inexpensive as say the Pheonix/Mesa area over in AZ but I don't think we are far off. Our place is 2k sq ft and 12 years old. We paid $225k for it.
Jobs are hit and miss depending upon what field your in. Both me and my wife drive 80 miles to San Diego everyday for work. I was kinda lucky that my transition to the civilian world was made easier by being offered a job at my last duty station to come back as a Govvie Civilian type. I am a Tech Specialist and my start pay was matched to what I was making as a E-7 in the Navy with allowances. So, it was just a change of clothes after waiting at home for 2 months on terminal leave
Chris