If whomever you bought it from isn't helpful, you can try calling into eTrailer.com tech support if they don't have your set up on their website. I have to admit, I'm having a tough time visualizing your problem without a picture or drawing. Is it the Reese 4 pin or seven? They have a couple of models of the seven pin that mount direct to their own class ii/iii/iv hitch, but the Curt, I have no idea.So my truck didn't have a tow package, not even a receiver.. so I bought a curt receiver, and a Reese light connector for trailer lights,. However, the connector is too long to put in a logical location, I.e. at the edge of the plastic before the steel part of the bumper. If I place the connector there, it runs into the receiver. Any suggestions or experience relocating in an easy location?