Hi James, I would say that has won the award for most expensive tie rod repair quote in the history of ever! If you have tie rods that need replacing, which sounds like you do, go to rockauto and buy a new set of inners and outers and replace them yourself. They are not that bad to replace. As far as the lift causing the issues, someone may be able to help you with that but you will have to provide a little more information on the truck and the components in question. 2wd? 4wd? what kind of lift components?
If I recall correctly, some lifts require the outer tie rods to be swapped after install. Right to left and left to right. Could be your issue?