87/89 here too, whatever is on the cheap side of the pump.
The real thing to calculate though is the cost per mile of each grade, not the mileage. Mileage alone doesn't mean squat, because all the grades are not the same price.
For example, I always put 91 in the wife's SE-R because the mileage increase pays for the difference in the cost of the gas. An SE-R is 'designed' for super (whatever that means), but the 93 is so much more expensive that I would lose money because the mileage increase is not enough.
Diminishing returns, I think it is called.
Anyway, might be worth figuring out.