I guess I'll share my tire experiences and personal opinions... and I drive aggressively on and off road...50/50 on/off road.
1st set of tires : BFG A/T's... they are great for on road (very low road noise), decent for light off road use, not too well on sand, worse in mud, decent on rocks... they wore out within 12.5k miles
2nd set: PC Extreme A/T's... they did good on road, better performance off road, good in sand, decent in mud, better on rocks, overall running was good... didn't like that they wore out around 13k as well
3rd set: Nitto Terra Grapplers... they did good on road (noticeable road noise though), good off road performance, very good on sand, good in mud, very good on rocks... these actually lasted over 32k
4th set (current): PC Extreme M/T's... they do good on road (but loud road noise), great off road performance, good in sand, better in mud, and awesome on the rocks... they are pushing 10k and still have a lot of life...
all in all, Nitto's were the best overall IMO, but I enjoy the PC Extreme M/T's handling on the rocks, just gotta deal with the road noise...